Every year, I experience a sinking feeling of pain and anguish over what happened on 9/11 ten years ago. Sadly, this is the event of my generation (and all people living) where we remember where we were and what we were doing when we saw the breaking news. First astonishment. Then, disbelief. Then, shock. Then, pain. Never never never acceptance.
I remember who I called first. My father.
I remember the fear I felt at having to drive over the Golden Gate Bridge to a job that insisted I come to work that day.
I remember the selfless souls of the first responders who risked their lives to help others. Sadly, many are now suffering illness due to their heroic deeds.
I remember associating our life in America to the many countries worldwide who are afflicted by terrorism every day.
I remember the wake-up call. No one is safe.
I remember being laid off from my dream job in my dream city, San Francisco.
I remember a life that changed forever on this day, 9/11.
Still, the reality is I only experienced the anguish of my own loss of life path and loss of dreams. My deepest empathy is really for the people who lost their loved ones. The loss of so many people and their futures, their dreams and their contributions.
There are no words to describe the unnecessary loss of life due to someone else’s calculated actions. Imagine how someone intended to cause this destruction, loss of life and pain. Unfathomable really. Then imagine all the good you can do!
With all this said, I only wish that people connect with people. Take the first step to say hello, smile, listen, show empathy, be kind, be patient and genuinely want to be of service to others. I hope people think outside themselves at a greater good and how just one act of kindness can send a rippling effect around the world.
Wishing everyone peace and kindness today and everyday for the rest of your very valuable and influential lives.
